Saturday, April 14, 2012

Lessons from Uganda and Zanzibar - #3 Remember God's Will


Lesson #3 – Remember God’s will

3/26 9:45am
I came to Uganda without a plan. My itinerary literally said, “Sunday, Mar. 25th – Wednesday, Apr. 4th: BKU Uganda.” I figured Victoria would have a list of things for me to do when I arrived. Well, I was wrong. But God showed, like He always does, that if I step out of the way, He will write a plan for me. And His plan is better than any I could think of.
So, although at first I felt like a lost puppy with nothing laborious to do and no specific place to go, my prayers for an open mind, heart, and spirit lead me to simply talk with Victoria. Through a day of questions and conversations, God directed Victoria and I to write the following schedule for my time in Uganda:
Sun., Mar. 25th – church, play with kids
Mon., Mar., 26th – create databases for recording donations and expenses, and a visitor information form, play with kids
Tues., Mar. 27th – organize office files, take pictures to update website, go to town to purchase beads to make jewelry
Wed., Mar 28th – make jewelry, play with kids
Thur., Mar. 29th – spend day at St. Maria Florence School, play with kids
Fri., Mar. 30th – Heather arrives J
Sat., Mar. 31st – spend day with friend in Kampala, treat two older BKU boys to dinner out in Entebbe
Sun., Apr. 1st – church, party for kids
Mon., Apr. 2nd – spend morning at Muslim School, walk through village to see more of Victoria’s family’s property and visit woman’s cow farm, play with kids
Tues., Apr. 3rd – visit The AIDS Support Organization (TASO), play with kids
Wed., Apr. 4th – walk to Lake Victoria, leave for Zanzibar

3/28 9:09p.m.
            Victoria prayed hard tonight about the children’s accommodations, saying, “When I look at their beds and rooms, I get sick.” She committed the new dormitory to God, and prayed for better infrastructure for the kids’ housing.
Kids with new solar lamps donated by Boy Scouts. The power goes out almost daily, so these definitely are much appreciated.
When the power goes out, we used the outdoor kitchen. Here, Victoria is making porridge for the kids.
And we thought the ant hills in LaGrange were dangerous!
The church. Lawn chairs and benches are brought in for services, plus a microphone, keyboard, speakers, and a mantel.
The "backyard."
For some reason, this road reminds me of Mt. Zion Church Road (the road to my grandma's house.)
I know this is probably very ignorant, but I was so amazed to see that women really do carry things on their heads.
Instead of using a microwave, Victoria wraps food in banana leaves and places it over boiling water, allowing the steam to heat up food. Ingenious!

Lessons from Uganda and Zanzibar - #2 Enter Curious


Lesson #2 – Enter curious

3/26 10:07p.m.
Victoria was so proud to show me the rest of her land, the other boys and girls’ dormitories, and describe plans to build a new dormitory that will house 100 kids, an office, clinic, and kitchen. From her pride, you might imagine a large, cleared field, but that is not what I found. Instead, we walked through the village, past an expensively built home belonging to a government official, to two shacks with doors falling off the hinges, broken windows, and a crying baby inside. The girls’ quarters were empty because most of them attend boarding school (Victoria doesn’t want them getting distracted by boys walking to and from school). The boys were crowded into their “dorm,” where most sleep two to a bed on dirty, mildewed foam cushions. I began to ask myself, “Is this better than where they come from?” Maybe what I am really thinking is, “Why isn’t this as good as where I come from?”

4/3
            I keep thinking about Teju Cole’s “White Savior Industrial Complex” article. While I’d substitute “Western” in place of “White,” because criticizing anything according race only often oversimplifies the real issue, I appreciate his critique of privilege, even his own, and his reminder that “solutions” should come from within a context, not from an outside “savior.”
            Growing up, I was always taught that as a guest in someone else’s home, you must humble yourself to not criticize or judge, to simply follow. I think the WSIC is not just about saving other people or places, but arrogance towards different ways of living and wanting everyone else to do as we do, and live as we live. Helping others have a better life shouldn’t be about giving them all we as the privileged class have, but helping and empowering them to gain access to all that they want and deem necessary. Not what we would want or need if tables were turned (i.e. clothing, toys), but what they’re hoping, aspiring, or possibly asking for.
When a visitor in someone else’s home, you help where and when you’ve been asked. And through developing a relationship, you can inquire and learn about your hosts’ desires and hopes, and offer knowledge on particular topics and even resources. But to enter someone’s home, be that their actually house or their country, and force or assume your standards of living on anyone else, or judge their lifestyle according to your standards, is arrogant, presumptuous, offensive, and thus ineffective.
Small plot of beans.
Girls' dorm with solar light panel donated by Boy Scouts.
First level of the new kitchen.
I know it may not look like much, but these are materials that will be later be used to build an additional kitchen for the boys and girls' dorms. This pile of rocks symbolizes a step in the right direction.
Entrance to the government official's home next door to BKU.
Using a razor blade to give his brother a hair cut.
 

Lessons from Uganda and Zanzibar - #1 Be Friendly


Lesson #1 – Be friendly
3/24 5:21pm
When I arrived to Dubai International Airport for check-in, I quickly observed several people sorting through their luggage. I noticed that they were trying to figure out how to get all their belongings to Addis Ababa, Ethiopia (or wherever their final destination was), but they were over the weight limit. One woman was looking through her suitcase, taking out various clothing items piece-by-piece, trying to keep as much as possible in her luggage while staying under the limit. While I listened to and watched the check-in assistance bark “suggestions” to the woman to “remove heavy items – perfume, shampoo, soap,” my attention was drawn to a lady holding a gym bag. All of a sudden, her travel partner, or so it seemed, was holding the bag. An airport security officer and I soon realized these two were not actually travel partners; instead, the woman was helping the man by adding his bag to her trip because she had extra weight. The security officer “kindly” reminded the two customers that this was not allowed, but they continued to discuss what seemed like a plan or agreement in Amharic. The security office then said, “You think I am stupid over here?! I know what you are doing, and I already told you that you can’t take someone else’s baggage. That it’s not allowed.” The man and woman simply ignored her.
            After checking in my one small backpack, far below the weight limit, walking through and around the airport for over an hour, and enjoying a Potbelly’s sandwich, I finally boarded my flight. And what do I discover? The airplane isn’t even half full! I asked myself, “Couldn’t the check-in assistant just given the customers the extra weight?” They obviously couldn’t, or didn’t want to, pay for the extra kilos. Or better yet, “Why didn’t I offer the first woman my extra weight?” What does it matter who takes what baggage, as long as it doesn’t equal too much weight for the plane? I’m not saying I should walk around an airport with a stranger’s luggage. That would be crazy; there could be a bomb in one of those bags for land’s sakes! But couldn’t I, instead of taking such pride in packing light and having a quick check-in, have at least asked the check-in assistant if I could give my extra-weight to one of the other customers?

4/6
            I arrived in Stone Town, and was not impressed! After 20 minutes of wondering around the crowded, dirty markets, avoiding the puddles with every step, and ignoring several men trying to speak to me in Swahili and English, I jumped into the first cab I could find and asked to go to Makuti Beach Hotel. After 10 minutes, I arrived to Mercury Hotel, and had to explain that I wanted to go to the east side of the island to MA-KU-TI hotel. Soon, my taxi was surrounded with 5 men trying to help the driver and I figure out where I was going. After a few phone calls, the men explained that I needed to go to the bus park and look for the bus to Bweijuu. I thanked them for their help, and made my way to the buses.
A man wearing pants cut into shorts, a torn and dirty t-shirt, and no shoes in the middle of the bus park approached me and asked where I was going. I told him Bweijuu, and he led me to a tent to get out of the rain. About 15 minutes later, he waved me over to a van. I got in, and sat among four sleeping men. The bus did not move, so I asked, “Bus to Bweijuu?” He waved and said, “wait” and of course, being a young woman, alone on a van/bus with five men who do not speak English, I thought to myself, “I’m going to be kidnapped,” and quickly began praying. After another 15 minutes of waiting and praying, the shoe-less man yelled, “Bweijuu!” then shuffled me off the van and onto the dala-dala to Bweijuu. One would think this is where I write, “He asked for money for helping me.” No, he simply said, “bye” and walked back to his van in the rain.
Finally on the dala-dala, I sat beside a man from Zanzibar who spoke very good English, and we talked about how nice people are in Zanzibar. I explained that in America, if someone is being really nice to you, they are probably trying to scam, cheat, or hurt you.
Midway through our conversation, my dala-dala had to pull over because the roof was leaking buckets of water onto the sheet of plastic that just couldn’t hold up to the weight. While the conductor of the bus tried to scoop cups of water off the sheet and out of the window, we had no choice but to stop when the tire blew. Luckily, we stopped near a large market, and just had to wait for another dala-dala to Bweijuu to come along. While waiting though, it continued raining, but thankfully I had a scarf to cover my head and bare-shoulders (I think Muslim women may be on to something.) After about 45 minutes of waiting in the rain for a dala-dala that was not already full to come by, my new travel buddy found us a man who was willing to drive us to Bweijuu for less than the dala-dala would’ve charged. I crawled into the 12-seater van with about 20 other people, and eventually made my way back to the hotel.
While you’re not missing much if you never make your way to Zanzibar, I must say I’ve learned a lot from just my two days here with some of the most friendly, helping, generous people I’ve met.
Ever seen a cow on a beach before? Me neither.
The storm clouds before it began raining while I was in Stone Town.
You might think this house is still under construction, but you're wrong. This is what most homes look like, but I think it's kinda cool.

Lessons from Uganda and Zanzibar

After arriving back to Abu Dhabi on Saturday night and going right back to work Sunday morning, I am finally getting the chance to update my blog with posts and pictures from my trip to Uganda and Zanzibar. I had an unbelievably amazing time, and am still overwhelmed with how blessed and enriched I was from my trip. I met so many great people and experienced new places, but most importantly I learned a lot. With the various lessons I learned, I've decided to write several different posts pertaining to each lesson. I've split up the journal entries that I wrote during my trip into 7 different lessons, and the entries are in chronological order within each lesson. I hope this isn't confusing, but it was more helpful to me and hopefully you that I recount my trip by theme, rather than only in chronological order or by just posting a bunch of pictures. After you've had a chance to read through the posts, if you have further questions, you should know how to find me. Happy reading!

A friend shared this with me, and I just think it's too funny, so I decided to share it here.

Friday, February 17, 2012

Student Work - Love

In the spirit of Valentine's Day, and inspired by Lauryn Hill's "To Zion - Interlude," I asked my students to define love. Here are just some of their responses:

Boys:
Love is very important for me. Love means to like something or someone a lot. Example: I love my dad.


To love someone is to care about them, risk your life for them 

Love – feeling happy inside by someone you really like and admire a lot  

Caring about a person’s existence

Is something only the heart can choose and not the brain

What is love? Love is a series of nonsense that most girls want and some people like and some boys don’t get
 
Girls
To me love has no definition. It has meaning; it’s a feeling you have towards someone. You adore and cherish someone. It doesn’t necessarily have to be spoken; it shows from the bottom of your heart.
 
Love is the rescue from loneliness. The best medicine. A person's gravitational pull to another person. Love is the look in the eye that has the key to the heart. Love is saying the right words to say for a connection.

Love is like a combination of strongly adore and admire. When somebody loves you, the person admires you and is quite willing to do anything to protect you.

To me love is something that you feel toward a person that is worthy of trust and who you enjoy spending your time with. It’s a strong feeling that you only get with a few people in your life and those people are the ones that you don’t want to loose.

Love is when you feel good with a person (you like) and you are yourself. Love can be friendship. Love is when you feel happy and light with the people you like without having to change your personality. Words aren’t necessary, but you appreciate the others company. Love is when you try to get one's attention and you smile and feel merry when you are with the person. Love is when you feel depressed and your heart hurts when you aren’t with that person. You give gifts without counting and you would do anything to protect the ones you love. Unfortunately, I don’t think love lasts.

Fast-forward to about 4:30 for the interlude.

Jack Fruit

My co-teacher brought some Jack Fruit to work the other day and offered me a piece. Before I could take a bite, she told me that the other teacher said it tastes like dung. You can imagine after hearing this I was not too enthusiastic about trying the bright yellow substance, but I went for it. It does NOT taste like dung. Rather, it's flavor is a mixture of pineapple and mango. The texture was a little rubbery and the smell is a bit...ummm...dungy. But the taste is enjoyable all the same. I don't think I'll eat it by itself too often, but I do think it will go nicely in a smootie!
The yellow pieces are the Jack Fruit. The white and black pieces are dragon fruit.

Valentine's Day - Part 2

My Valentine's Day started with me sleeping in because I had to go to the doctor for a check-up. As I hopped in a cab, I told the driver, "Happy Valentine's Day!"
He replied, "That's today? What day is it?"
"February 14th of course!" I answered. "Do you have a valentine?!"
"No, my valentine is far away. She is in Egypt."
"Well, you should call her and say, 'Happy Valentine's Day!' I think it will make her very happy," I offered. The driver just chuckled as I got out of the car, leaving a tip that would hopefully pay for his Valentine's Day phone call. I do hope he took my advice and called his sweetheart.

After my doctor's appointment, I arrived to work just on time to start class. Students were able to purchase a free-dress day by donating money to the Terry Fox Cancer Research Foundation, and they all looked so cute in their pink and red, flowers and hearts, kandoras and dish-dashes. I just love seeing the kids out of uniform. Coming from the states, I was expecting a spectacle of balloon and candy exchanges, but beyond a few extra pieces of chocolate, classes continued in normal form.

Later that evening, I attended a Non-Valentine's Day Valentine's party. Since "love talk" was restricted at this party, we ate nachos and watched "Moneyball." (Great movie BTW.) I still cannot understand why some people reject this holiday so much. What is so wrong with having a special day to spread a little extra love! So what if card, candy, and flower companies make a little extra money from it; spread some love for crying out loud! But, to each-his-own (I guess).

I ended the day with a Valentine's ice-cream Skype date with my mom. We both had a bowl of ice-cream and chatted about school, family, friends, and her V-Day plans with Mr. Eddie. Seeing my mom and her perfectly arranged bowl of ice-cream and cookies made me miss her a little more than normal. She's just so darn cute and I love her to pieces!

All in all, Valentine's Day 2012 was great and it just reminded me to share love everyday!!!
XOXO
This represents me on Valentine's Day (and hopefully everyday). I hope my heart shares love like this does!
One of the cards that I received at Bible study last week. Inside it included verses from I John 3:18, I John 4:18, Psalm 37:4, and Proverbs 31:10.
The balloon's a little deflated and the rose is wilting, but I got these a few days before Valentine's Day. So sweet.